The API Chipmunk provides to handle this sort of thing natively is called post step callbacks. Is that exposed at all?
Otherwise you'll need to build a list of actions or something that you need to handle later after the collision phase has ended. It's not hard, but it is quite tedious.
Can't sleep... Chipmunks will eat me...
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